Thursday, November 26, 2009

In Memoriam: Susan B. Shpeen

Susan Shpeen, wife and life long partner of Rabbi Scott Shpeen, passed away on Tuesday after a short but fierce battle with cancer. Scott has been my mentor, friend and trusted colleague since he first hired me out of rabbinical school in 2002. Susan provided a perfect first model for Elizabeth and our family to follow. Here is (left to right) Scott, Susan, Elizabeth, me, and Rabbi Sam Stahl at a celebratory dinner just before my installation as rabbi of Monmouth Reform Temple in November 2006. May Susan's memory be a blessing and may Scott, Adam and Hilary soon be comforted.


Thursday, November 19, 2009

Welcome to the blogosphere

I was reminded recently that I should explain the blog and my "editorial philosophy." I know that many of you already know what a blog is and have a sense of how a blog differs from a traditional website or the webpages of a mainstream newspaper or news network (like CNN.com or WashingtonPost.com). I use this blog to post quick, short pieces that reflect my opinion about events related to the Jewish world, our temple, and American culture in general. I often use more humor and sarcasm here than I would use in a sermon or bulletin article. Like most blogs, my postings sometimes sacrifice thoroughness of research for speed of posting. In other words, they are short, quick reactions to stories I have seen in the news or around us. I use the blog for three purposes: 1. to bring stories to your attention that you might otherwise miss (since I don't expect you to weed through the Jewish news sources as much as I do). 2. Elicit comments and discussion on issues. 3. Offer my opinion and perspective. I have changed postings after they've been up for a few days - especially as comments point out mistakes or counterpoints or the stories themselves are disproven (see the J Street entry below for an example of one that I've changed since originally posting).

In short, welcome to the blog. Feel free to comment, flame, praise, dismiss, log-off, whatever. But, please, join the conversation if you see something that moves you!

What's a blog?


Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Back Soon

With apologies, the blog has been dormant these past weeks. I'll be back after this weekend (if not before).

Friday, November 6, 2009

Biennial: Bringing the Rabbis to Life

There's a teaching in Rabbinical Literature meant to show the importance of cheerfulness and pleasantry between people. In Jewishspeak it is called "sever panim yafot." The story goes that one of our ancient sages would not walk more than a few steps in the market place without greeting somebody with a smile. It always seemed hard to believe. I've been in the shuk and other Middle Eastern market places. There's lots to smile at (the food, colors, culture, hustle & bustle), but it isn't always the nicety of other people.

Here at the URJ Biennial (my first, by the way), I've seen how the rabbis and everyone else here come to life. All of us here in Toronto are energized and engaged. It's an electrified atmosphere. But it is also a place where that Talmudic story comes to life. I can not walk five steps without seeing an old classmate, an old neighbor (and one of my first friends in the world) who made aliyah and now organizes group trips, a colleague, a mentor, a friend, a vendor (i.e. Avi Zuckerman, etched glass artist), etc. It's hard to get to the sessions because you have to run a friendly gauntlet of smiling faces to get to your room. But, as our ancient sages knew from their own market place, some of the best exchanges and most important business happens in the passage ways and not the offices or stalls. So maybe I can't get to every session I expected, sever panim yafot is alive and well and producing lots of good learning in Toronto!

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

You lost me, J Street

RJR ADDED: "In light of the statement by J Street denying the removal of "Pro Israel" from its college arm, I am no longer "lost" on the J Street cause. I kept the blog posted here, however, as it encapsulates some key positions I hold about Israel and our relationship to it."

The original posting:

First, there was chatter about creating a more moderate alternative to AIPAC; about creating a pro-Israel, DC-based lobbying type organization that would not be so hawkish and right wing. Maybe there could be something like the New Israel Fund vis-a-vis Federation. There certainly seemed to be a need for the unheard voices in our community to state a case for helping Israel by stopping the "anything Israel does, we support" policies of the Bush and prior administrations. I have never accepted the argument that American Jews have no right to express their opinions about Israel since we don't serve in its army or send our kids there. That kind of argument only seems to appear when American Jews are critical of Israeli military policies (i.e., it never comes up when we criticize the government's stance toward Reform Jewish issues in Israel or the high rate of traffic fatalities in Israel). It also doesn't stop us from criticizing the military policies of Russia (vs. Chechnya), China (vs. Taiwan), North Korea (vs. everyone), etc. In fact, I still opine vocally about American military action even though I have not served in the armed forces and don't have a child in uniform. We have a right - an obligation even - to speak out. All the more so when it comes to Israel, the Jewish homeland.

Next, there was the announcement of J Street and its staff. Timed closely with the arrival of the Obama presidency, J Street attracted both heightened concern and, of course, "Hope." But always, J Street was based on a pro-Israel philosophy, even if its mission was to challenge the dominant, AIPAC-charted course for America's relationship with Israel.

The Reform Movement welcomed J Street's arrival upon the scene. We seemed like natural allies (or at least fellow travelers). Then, URJ President, Rabbi Eric Yoffie, split with J Street over some of its statements during and just after the Cast Lead Gaza War. If liberals like Rabbi Yoffie were unsure of J street.... Oy. (Read Rabbi Yoffie's editorial here and J Street's response here).

Now, according to the Jerusalem Post, J Street has announced that it is dropping the phrase "PRO-ISRAEL" from its slogan (which had been "Pro-Israel, Pro-Peace") for all its college and universities offices and programs. The phrase "Pro-Israel" is "isolating" not "comfortable" and "alienating." In some places, J Street activists say, the words "PRO-ISRAEL" are just outright bad.

I guess you never could have counted me among J Street's vocal supporters, but you have lost me with that one. Perhaps the question comes down to whether or not Israel advocacy groups like AIPAC or J Street have inherently Jewish characters or missions (J Street describes its constituents as "primarily but not exclusively Jewish"). If so, there are certain things that are not negotiable. Being proudly and publicly "Pro-Israel" is one of them, even if our understanding of that term pushes us to criticize Israel. If not, is J Street a more politically savy version of the International Solidarity Movement or ANSWER? Those are hardly among the "friends" of Israel or Jewish people in general. And if not, you've lost me for sure because I need a Jewish voice that is pro-peace and still pro-Israel.

(p.s. J Street addresses these kinds of critiques directly on its myths and facts section of its website, check them out for yourself)